The Book

What if the clearest feedback you could ever receive came from a 1,000-pound partner who doesn't care about your resume, your title, or your excuses? In the round pen, horses respond only to clarity, consistency, and trust. They don't lie. They don't judge. They simply reflect back who you are and how you communicate.

 

Through powerful stories from her own journey and those of her clients, Maria Alessandri shares the surprising ways horses teach us to lead with intention, set boundaries without aggression, and connect in ways that transform our families, teams, and relationships. Along the way, Maria reveals lessons she herself has learned in the round pen, moments of humility, courage, and growth that shaped her life as both a leader and a parent.

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This book is not about training horses. It's about training ourselves.

Leaders will learn how to inspire trust without force.

Parents will discover how to set boundaries with compassion and connect with their kids.

Anyone seeking growth will find practical, relatable lessons they can use every day.

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From the barn to the backyard to the boardroom, Ask Like You Mean It invites you to step into the round pen, see yourself in the mirror of the horse, and walk out with the tools to communicate more clearly, lead more authentically, and live more fully.